So me and my ex broke up 9 months ago after being together for 4 years,He was my first love, well I guess pretty much my first everything, Through the first 3 months it was a lot of fighting and him leading me on and then just not talking. Me and haven’t been talking for like 6 months now. The other day I walked into his work (he works at a grocery store) to buy stuff and I didn’t say anything to him because I didn’t feel like talking to him would be a good idea considering he was the one who just randomly started ignoring me,So I just kind of avoided him and tried not to make eye contact even though I was watching him out of the corner of my eye, and I saw him watching me out of the corner of his too. So yesterday I was on the phone with my friend Mary and she tells me that she and her friend Jeannie went into his work and he kept hitting on Jeannie like really obviously, and after he did it he kept smirking at Mary, and im not really sure what to feel, I wanna think that he did it because he knew that Mary would tell me but i’m not sure if its just hopeful thinking on my part.
Well, regardless of why your ex was flirting with Jeannie, he’s a jerk. Again, not completely sure what you’re asking for (advice-wise), but I don’t think you should worry. Yes, this guy was your first love and first everything. You’ll probably never forget him. He will always be a part of you, and that’s fine. But you’ve been broken up for 9 months now and if he’s ignoring you, I’m assuming he has no interest in getting back together with you.
He could have just been flirting with Jeannie to piss you off, or he could have actually been interested in her. Either way, I don’t think he’s still interested in you. Which is totally fine. Invest your time in something - or someone ;) - better. Go on a road trip, spend a day at the beach, take up a new hobby, read a book, play board games with your friends, learn something new, bake a cake - do whatever you want. This guy isn’t a part of your life anymore, so do what you want and what is going to make you happy. And if you find a new guy along the way, then that’s great! But don’t let your ex’s immaturity get to you. You’re better than that.